(Dis)organization

Before I get to the blog/event stuff, I’m going to get a little personal here. (Please feel free to skip over this and on to the next paragraph.) When in doubt, I distract myself. I get online, wasting my air time, I start texting people at home, I try (and fail) to read a book, I Wikipedia stuff I don’t know about but am interested in, I take a shower or eat. But in today’s instance, I write a blog. Sometimes I doubt myself. I doubt who I am as a person, and why anyone would want to form and maintain a relationship with me. These thoughts quickly breeze over and I segue into the future. Will I be forever alone? The phrase “there are plenty of fish in the sea,” is to me, frankly, bullshit. How many people in the world (not even the world, as I realistically don’t have access to the world at large – really only where I live, so, in this case, Tulsa and Norman) will I be attracted to on a spiritual, emotional, romantic, and physical level and will they in turn be attracted back on these levels? And when these handful or less of people come along, will we be able to maintain something… Forever? Maybe I think about the future too much. I need to live in the present. But I’ve gotten to the chronological and emotional age where settling down sounds nice, so long as that someone and I will be able to continue to have fun and travel together with our potential family. By no means am I actively looking for someone thinking “holy shit, my time (for finding someone) is almost over.” I realize that at twenty-one I am in the prime of my life, but it’d be nice to have some kind of reassurance. Right now, my reassurance is with The Fray.

Anyway, now that that’s out of my system (sorry for that public display of humanness, but I do feel better – sometimes it takes talking to someone else my own age who feels the same and has the same worries, and sometimes it helps to just type it out for a blog when nobody around the world is online and hope people skip over it) I can move on to event stuff. I’ve decided to skip over the rest of spring break, realizing my laziness in that a week trip took me over a month to blog about and another weekend trip didn’t even make it into my personal journal. In fact, it’s been almost a month since I’ve written anything in my journal. I finished the one my friend Jami gave me before I left, wrote some pages in a new South Africa-bought one, and quit – pathetic. Life moves on and so will this blog.

So, earlier this week my friend Mark from OU who’s in SA independently now texted me asking if Brooke and I and the other international students would want to volunteer at a boys’ shelter this weekend. The shelter had organized with about eight other shelters in the area to put together a sports day for all the kids. Having nothing else to do Saturday morning and loving children, we said yes. We were picked up about a half hour later than expected (what they say about African time is true) and headed to the home on the southwest side of the city. We arrived to a field full of kids, boys and girls alike, just kinda sitting around in their own groups while we waited for instruction. We all stood around until we were told to move into the gym for orientation. Several people spoke about the day while some of the kids from the shelter in Pretoria that Mark knew played with Brooke and I in the back of the auditorium. Or rather, played with our phones. After the speaking and during the phone-playing, a traditional African song and dance was performed by two of the shelters’ kids. I love it when I get to see traditional African stuff performed. It reminds me that I really am in South Africa, on the African continent, and not in a completely Westernized part of the world.

This is Mesach. He pretty much sat on my lap and played with my phone during the whole orientation.

After orientation and the performance, we moved back outside and, again, waited around for about a half hour while the coordinators of each shelter collaborated on what exactly to do. A schedule had been typed up, but we were already an hour behind and nothing had really been organized. Brooke and I talked about life here and at home, about African (dis)organization, and compared cultures. After awhile, cones for track and field races were set up and Brooke and I decided it was time to move off of the field. We took a seat on the bleachers and watched a couple of races while simultaneously observing an adorable little Indian boy cuddle with a dog. It was probably only in the mid-80’s outside, but we were also in the African sun (which shines so differently and much more intensely here) and I felt myself starting to burn. I moved to the shade.

After a quick sit and cool-down, the lady “in charge” of the whole event came over to me and asked if I could supervise traditional games and chess which was being played back in the auditorium. Chess? Kids are interested in chess? No way. I don’t want to do chess. Chess is boring. Kids need to run around. Also, chess = a traditional game? Not really. Whatever. I had nothing else to do, agreed and followed her inside. There was one chess set and about twenty-five older boys who wanted to play. There was supposed to be a competition going but with only one set and so many competitors, I could already tell this was going nowhere fast. So this lady asked the other adults in the room what was going on and after a good five minutes of conversation we finally decided on something. Kind of. She counted kids interested (twenty-four) and coordinators (adults – four) and assigned six kids to each coordinator. “Register these children for chess,” she said. I was confused. Register them? This is a one person job, tops. “Oh, and we have these,” she said, picking up a grocery bag with about a dozen tennis balls in them. “Can you do anything with these?” “Wall Ball,” I thought. But I didn’t know how to play Wall Ball. I always just observed on the playground in elementary school. My friends and I were the ones who stood around and talked during recess. (I’ve always been a little different, I suppose.) “I don’t know if I can do anything with these, I’m sorry.” I said to her. She told me to get creative and that she would go get a marker so that I could label the tennis balls as king, knight, pawn, etc. What? 12ish tennis balls + no giant tennis-ball-chess-board + sixteen pieces in a real game = chess tournament? DOES NOT COMPUTE. She left and I pulled out the schedule I had been given earlier to start writing names down for registration, but had no pen. The kids around me (and ones with the other adults) began to disperse back to observing the chess game at hand. I also left but in search for Brooke, my fellow American who possibly knew how to play Wall Ball, wanting to be able to do something with the tennis balls turned chess pieces I had been shown.

I found Brooke near the shade tree I had sat by before I was called to do nothing and asked her if she knew how to play Wall Ball. “No, I used to in elementary but don’t remember how anymore,” she said. I felt a little defeated but was glad to be back outside. Brooke and I talked and played with some of the kids (Mesach, and some others. It should be noted that Meshach is from DRC and also has brothers named Shadrach and Abednego.) while waiting on something do to, of which that something never materialized. As I lugged some of the kids around on my back and tossed them into the air, I had flashbacks to childhood at my grandparents’ house in Oklahoma City and my cousins and I being launched into the deep end of the pool by my dad and uncles. I can’t wait to be able to do that with my own kids some day. After some play, a dance, and some more lounging, it was time to head back, as most of us international students had other stuff to do that day. We said goodbye to the kids and seven of us piled into two cars of Mark’s friends, and headed back to Tuks.

Abednego and me

While we literally did nothing to help out the whole time we were there (with the exception of Anna and Liu, who cut vegetables for lunch in the kitchen while we were outside), I’m so glad I went. I loved being with the kids and experiencing the ridiculousness of the (dis)organization at hand. The one thing I’ll miss about this place when I return home in a little over a month is the entertainment value of the society. That may sound nationalistic, but I truly to love the differences. And deep down, the disorganization.

Spring Break '10, part II - part II

Ok, so I’ll have to admit that the reason that updates aren’t coming in frequently is due to my laziness, not a lack of experiences. With that said, I would like to continue to recount my spring break adventures. (Which were almost a month ago, which really doesn’t seem possible. Time really does fly.)

So, after our bridge jumping adventure, we continued along the southern coast, The Garden Route, and up through the mountains to the quaint little town of Oudtshoorn. The Garden Route was perhaps one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever seen in South Africa. We ended up at the most beautiful hostel I’ve yet to stay in and topped it off with a delicious Italian meal. One of the most perfect days in my life, to be sure.

The following day, the 26^th, we had a nice breakfast at a B&B and proceeded to an ostrich farm on which ostrich riding was the highlight. First we had a tour of the farm, feather duster factory, the hatcheries, and saw the farm’s two prized pygmy ostriches. After that, it was over to the fields and the riding. First of all, let me start by saying that ostriches are terrifying close up. To put it in Madison’s words, “They have velociraptor eyes!” They really do. Not to mention their freaky three-toed-feet and giant talon-like fingernail on the middle finger. Anyway, once we all sat on William the Ostrich for pictures and just to get comfortable, “saddles” were added to others to ride (saddles = pieces of tarp). Jami and Brooke went first, squealing with delight and fear the whole time. Next it was my turn. I got on, legs wrapped around front, held this dinosaur-bird’s freaky talon/arm/wing and I was off. The guys running the place had to chase him around to get him to run, but it was fun anyway. I unconsciously remember hearing “Hold on! Don’t lose your balance!” “I’m doing great!” I thought to myself. But soon I had lost my balance and was toppling forward as my ostrich rounded a corner. Hitting the ground wasn’t painful at all, but being stepped on by the ostrich that was behind mine was. I remember seeing it come at me and thinking “That thing’s talon/fingernail is going to tear my fleshy leg apart.” Later, checking myself in the bathroom, I realized that it really only left my pants a little dirty, tore my underwear, and left my inner thigh in a lot of pain. Days later, I would realize the extent of that step in seeing a pink, purple, and black bruise grow to the size of both of my hands. Whatever. I still rode an ostrich.

On Monday we (and by we, I mean Madison) drove from Oudtshoorn to Cape Town, leaving at around 6 and arriving at noon. We checked into our hostel, went in search of lunch to no avail, and ended up at Table Mountain. We saw that a tram ride to the top and back cost around R180 or about $25 and decided to skip that and save our moneyz instead. The view from where we were was gorgeous anyway. After this, we headed back to the hostel where the girls took naps and I decided to walk around the city. It was nice to be on my own in this big, safe, new city for a bit. I made it downtown and back, and then down the other side of the street our hostel was on. After arriving back at the hostel, we went to the Waterfront, which is mainly a shopping district on the water. No beaches. We walked around the mall a bit, saw a movie, and then attempted to find a Mexican restaurant and ended up at a Spanish place instead.

Tuesday we headed to Cape of Good Hope. It was a beautiful day and a beautiful drive through several beach towns. On the way, we passed baboons on the side of the road. This wasn’t my first time seeing this in South Africa, but I don’t think monkeys on the side of the road will be something I would ever get used to. All along the drive there were signs that read “Warning! Baboons are wild animals that are not to be fed. Lock your doors and roll up your windows.” Once at the national park of Cape of Good Hope, we had a little of a drive till at the Point. It reminded me of Oklahoma in its rolling plains, but was so different in that it was rocky and had the Ocean in the background. This place is truly gorgeous and may be at the top of my list of places to see before you die. Truly beautiful. The wind was blowing hard and white-capped waves were crashing on the shore and the rocks and then transitioned into beautiful blue ocean. And somewhere way out there, thousands of miles away, was Antarctica. On the drive back was a sign for penguin viewing. We parked and the car guard told us if we just stayed on the boardwalk, we didn’t have to pay to get to the beach and see them. Free wild penguins? Cool. Thanks, man! Anyway, we walked the boardwalk and saw dozens of penguins just chillin’ in the shade on the sand. We got to the end and decided to keep going anyway, which was a good decision seeing as how we got to the beach and had some pictures taken. Once back in Cape Town, we had Mexican (the first time in two and a half months for all of us), which was delicious. After that, gelato (also for the first time in 2.5 months), and back to the hostel.

I’ll stop here, as the rest of spring break has both detailed days as well as plain ones.

Spring Break '10, part II - part I

I guess it’s about time that I tell you all about my Spring Break now. Or at least the first part, because let’s face it, Spring Break 2010 part II was jam freakin’ packed full of activities. So here goes part one…

Thursday the 23^rd we left Pretoria at about 7AM with every intent on getting to Port Elizabeth, on the Southern Coast, before dark. But this is Africa. It doesn’t have time for your plans. In fact, it has so little (care for) time, that it has all the time in the world. The drive was easy. Jamie and I sat back and relaxed while Madison did all the driving (she’s the only one who knows how to drive a manual car – I hope to fix this before Turkey next semester) and Brooke navigated (and planned every stop and activity). The African countryside in this central region reminded me of West Texas meets Monument Valley Utah meets the Australian Outback if the outback had shrubbery. In other words, dry yet bushy, hilly yet flat, and plateau-y. I hope that was confusing enough for you. Anyway, the terrain was beautiful and unique, but all the towns we drove through had one thing in common: they all had a township. I couldn’t help but think as we drove passed each one that here I am, this rich white kid from America, seeing the world, about to do all the things on this trip that I am about to do, while most of these people will probably never get out of these situations, out of South Africa, or possibly even their hometowns. On one hand it was a little depressing, and on the other it made me really think about how privileged I am to be born when, how, and where I was and appreciate what life has given me. The day ended beautifully. As we continued our drive southward, the sun was setting in the west behind the mountains with a beautiful transition from yellow to red, purple, blue, and black along with Venus and Mars while a full yellow Moon began to peek over the mountains to the east with some thin clouds and a bright Jupiter. We could see each set and rise simultaneously. Absolutely beautiful.

Friday the 24^th we had planned on going to Addo Elephant National Park, a park with, allegedly, the highest concentration of elephants in the world. We got there with four reservations to ride horses through the park for three hours, but when we got to the front desk, Jamie wasn’t wearing the proper attire nor did she have much experience. Madison also felt like sitting out, so soon it was just Brooke and me left to go. We headed out for the stables with the oh-so-loving, stern, and overly dramatic warning of “Be safe. You could die,” from the ranger in the office. Nice. Thanks, bud. Will do. After we were given our horses, we just kinda sat on them nervously in a fenced area next to the stables. Then came our two other riding mates. Two large middle-aged German men with think German accents who claimed to own ranches in the south of Germany. Sweet. So these noobs were going to be riding with ranchers. “Let’s just act like we know what we’re doing,” Brooke said. “Um, duh,” I replied.

As we rode through the “wilderness” of that nature reserve… Well, honestly, nothing happened. There were power lines crossing the plains and the only fauna we saw were springbok, a rather large tortoise, zebra, and some ostriches doing what animals do in the springtime. With the exception of the ostrich coupling, we had seen all of this before. No elephants. Only their leavings. Old, dry leavings. Oh, and a fenced off monument of elephant bones. “If you see an elephant in this section of the park, you should go to the casino. Because you are very lucky,” said our ranger at the beginning of the ride. Brooke and I gave each other this look like “What? Are you serious? That’s what we came for.” So, on went our eventless ride. And came back. And that was the end of that adventure. Back in town, we treated ourselves to a nice dinner, walked the Port Elizabeth Boardwalk, and went back to the hostel early to rest up for what had the potential to be the last day of our lives.

Today was the day. We were going to drive from Port Elizabeth to just east of Plettenberg Bay, South Africa, where the ride/fall/jump of a lifetime awaited us. On the way, the first high bridge over a gorge we drove over, we all freaked out a little bit. “Holy shit! Holy shit!” We had no idea. These were babies compared to the Bloukrans Bridge that awaited us. Upon pulling up the side of the gorge with the business that ran the bungee jumping, Face Adrenalin, we saw people getting their harnesses on, and checked out the bridge from what could be called a viewing ledge. Immediately upon seeing the bridge, Madison had decided she was out, but she had been scared about it since this activity was first proposed over a month ago. There were about fifteen or so other spectators watching people jump from a distance. A body fell from the bridge. At least, that’s all we could tell from the distance we were watching. Brooke, Jamie, and I took a collective gasp, and began to scream and freak out on each other. “Do we really want to do this?” “Of course we do! We’re gonna jump off a freakin’ bridge!” “Oh my goooooosh!”

Bloukrans Bridge - 216 m

We went to pay. “Has anyone ever died doing this,” Brooke asked. After a quick reply and assurance that no, nobody had ever died and it was totally safe, her next question was “What’s the worst injury you’ve ever had?” (A quick note: before we even left Pretoria, Brooke had researched every risk involved and had seen that some people go blind from increased blood pressure in their brain.) With a smirk that suggested “You don’t want to know,” the lady at the check out chuckled under her breath and handed us our indemnity forms to sign. Brooke, Jamie, and I filled out our emergency contact info, weight, signed, paid our 600 Rand, and were weighed. We were assigned what we called our Death Numbers, and they along with our weights in kilograms were written on our right hands. “In case they need to identify the body,” I said.

Hysteria

We headed over to the harness station and got all harnessed up. Here’s where it starts getting good. I wish I could tell you all about this in person, because even as I think about the rest of this venture, a huge smile comes to my face and I want to laugh with you and tell the story. Anyway, with harnesses on, we began to laugh. Hysterically. Maniacally. According to Brooke, harder than she had ever laughed before in her life. “WE JUST PAID! WE HAVE TO DO IT! WE HAVE TO DO IT!” At this point, Brooke was weeping from laughter. Our faces hurt. Our stomachs hurt. Laughter consumed every fiber of our beings. And it was wonderful. But terrifying. We were about to jump off of a 708 foot bridge (higher than the Seattle Space Needle) with nothing to save us from certain death but a giant rubber band rope, after all.

After twenty minutes of letting us calm down (Or freak out more. Or change our minds [nah]. Or hype ourselves up.), it was our groups turn. After a briefing and instructions on how to jump (Arms out like a ‘T,’ knees bent, jump forward, as onto your bed. DO NOT go feet first. The rebounce won’t be fun.), details on how big the bridge is and how high the jump is and what to expect, we headed down the path to the side of the bridge where a catwalk awaited us.

Beneath us, the Earth became farther and farther down as the bridge went farther and farther out over the gorge. For the first time in my life, I experienced vertigo, as I looked through the holes of the catwalk down to the craggy rocks and gnarly trees below. I focused on the beautiful ocean through the hillsides and to my left instead. Once on/under the bridge (see pictures), we were again told how to jump. A rather bored and boring looking man and his weight, 92 kilos, were called. He would be one of the first. Brooke’s name and weight, 57 kilos, are called. She would also be one of the first. After the shock had subsided, she began to freak. Again. “WHAT?! FIRST?! NO! I’LL EAT A HOTDOG! ANYTHING BUT FIRST!” She did not want to go first. In fact, I had actually volunteered to go first, but weight was considered before wants. There were different bungees for different weights, after all. Whatever.

We got to the main part of the bridge. “Jamie! You’ll go first!” we hear. Jamie looks at Brooke and me. Terrified. Timidly, she takes off her jacket, gets the ankle pads on, and they tie the cord around the pads. By now my poor friend is crying through her laughter. “Tell my mom I love her!” she says. It’s hard to tell which is emotion is stronger, fear or excitement, but they help her to the ledge anyway. Toes over the side and music blaring we hear from the crew “5! 4! 3! 2! 1! BUNGEE!!!!!” Over she goes. Not gracefully, stricken with emotion. But she goes nonetheless. Next, the bored and boring man does his boring jump and then it’s Brooke’s turn. She is freakin’ pumped, man. She pulls a Rocky by jumping around to the music, gets ‘ankled’ up, as I have named it, and goes. A perfect swan dive. As if into a pool. Only over the side of a 708 foot bridge and into the seemingly unending air.

After she and Jamie are up, we talk about what they felt, what I should expect, and the wait begins. Only it seems to never end. A fair amount of our group goes during my wait. Over half. After about a half hour (or so it seemed), the first group of jumpers was asked to leave the bridge. What? But my friends are included in that group. “Do we have to?” asks Brooke. They had to. Damnit. Now I’m alone up here with nobody I know. But soon it didn’t matter. It was my turn (finally).

They put the pads around my ankles, and a rope that’s connected to the bungee cord around the pads. “This knot and rope I’m tying around and through your legs can hold up to three tons.” “Well that’s good,” I think, “because I’d prefer not to die today.” The bridge guys help me up, feet tied together, and perch me feet over the side of the bridge. I look down. I look down a long ways. Finally my heart starts racing and I’m second-guessing what I’ve signed up for. Seriously. That’s a long. freakin’. way. down. But before I know it, “FIVE! FOUR! THREE! TWO! ONE! BUNGEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!” Over I go. I am falling. I am falling. And falling. All I hear is the wind going passed my ears as if I have just stuck my head out of the window of a speeding car. (We were told that, in fact, we would reach a falling velocity of the equivalent of 75 MPH) “How am I still falling?” I like to think my subconscious was thinking. At the bottom,  I can feel all the blood rushing to my head, as my eyes water and vision blurs. “I AM GOING TO GO BLIND!” I think, remembering Brooke’s research. But I didn’t. I bounce. And go what seems like a long ways up. I fall again. Again a delayed reaction from me as I finally scream at the end of this second descent. “HOLY SHIIIIIT!!!! OH MY GOOOOOD! WOOOOOOOHHHH” I say over and over (or something like that), as it finally hits me as to what I’ve just done. I’m laughing, alternating reaching for the bottom and holding onto myself and screaming more expletives as I continue to bounce several times.

After the last bounce, as I dangle there on a rope like a whole chicken on a Chinese street market, all I can focus on is the tree directly beneath me. “This is the last thing I am going to see before I die. I am going to land in that yellowish-green tree when my feet slip out of this thing,” I think. It should be mentioned here that Brooke, Jamie, and I each recall this feeling at the bottom, like our feet were going to slip out. I was flexing those suckers like they had never been flexed before. Not even my years in band and lifting my toes could top this. Thank you, adrenaline, for allowing me to sustain for as long as I did. It should also be mentioned that I (and every other jumper) had a backup connection that my conscious mind completely neglected to remember as I dangled there like a fool, flexing my feet for all they were worth. As I continued to flex, I started talking to myself aloud, wondering when the guy was going to get there. “Where’s the guy? I wonder where the guy is. I’m going to slip out and die if he doesn’t get here soon. I wish the guy would get here.” It went on like this, me talking to myself dangling from a bridge, with some variance, for what seemed like forever. But soon he came. I heard a voice. “There you are!” I said. He began pulling me up and I remember thinking You are my favorite person in the history of all time.

After I was up and reunited with my friends on land again, we watched our replay videos (I jumped feet first in my excitement – oops), were handed our badass certificates, bought our souvenirs, and went to lunch. We were famished, after all, from jumping off a bridge.

That night, as we each sat journaling in our room, Brooke and I rekindled the laughter that consumed us at the harnessing station. It was relentless, loud, and full of joyful tears. Laughter was our narcotic. Completely addictive and carefree. “What did we do today?!” “WE JUMPED OFF A BRIDGE!!!” we manage to say through our laughter.

We jumped off a bridge.

Becoming More and Less American

Ok. Dang. A lot has happened in the past month. Sorry that it’s actually been that long, but for a while I had actually thought nothing had happened without realizing it. Therefore, I think for the sake of everyone’s sanity (but mainly mine as well as my hands/wrists from typing so much recently [I had a 3,000 word {10 page} paper due today that I basically researched and wrote in the past 24 hours]), I’m going to break up the weeks preceding Spring Break (I never know whether or not to capitalize this holiest of weeks – so I do anyway) and Spring Break itself.

Where to begin? I can’t remember, so I’m going to cheat and take a quick peek in my personal journal and remind myself exactly what happened with my life in the month of September that is share-worthy for the blogosphere.

For starters, I realized what I really want in the person I want to share the rest of my life with. For some, they’ve known forever. For others, it’s an ongoing process. Still others have already found that person. Without going into a lot of sappy details, I’ll suffice to say that sometimes bad or awkward experiences with other people (and spending time reflecting with real friends and yourself about those experiences) are what truly help you to discover who you really are and what you really want.

On the 11^th, my friend Carmen and I went to Menlyn Mall in a different area of Pretoria just to kill a Saturday (fun fact: we live in the Hatfield district and Menlyn Mall is in the Menlyn district). I had been to this mall before but we went into some different stores this time. The main store and focus of this story is one that I can’t recollect the name of. Just know that it was rather Walmart-esque: high ceilings, fluorescent lighting accompanied by skylights, wide aisles, a grocery and home section, entirely too much floorspace and way too many displays, etc. (Bear with me. This is, in fact, going somewhere.) You’d think that as an American, this store would be somewhat of a comfort. A shelter. A place to get lost in and one in which to get all your shopping done. I prefer Target, but hey. Sometimes Walmart is just more convenient. Shut up. You know you go to big box stores, too. Anyway, you’d think I’d be comfortable here. WRONG. I started flipping out after about 4.75 minutes (roughly) in that place. It was huge, full of artificial and natural lighting, and wide aisles. I don’t know what happened but in the past couple of months here, my brain chemistry has changed or something. I needed out. I left Carmen to her shoe shopping and went back out to the main section of the mall where I could breathe in a cramped, darker space again. Honestly, I still don’t know what happened with me in there. What the hell, Africa? Hopefully this was either a one-time thing or something I won’t take home with me.

Something else has happened to me in the past three months in South Africa. I’ve become an American. Part of me is ashamed to admit this, but I’ve begun openly defending my country in class. We get ragged on for our foreign policy all. the. time. here. So, with my fellow once non-patriotic Sooner, Brooke, I have begun discussing how much I love America and how sometimes our actions are justified. If you know me at all, well… I guess now you don’t. In fact, in the paper I turned in today regarding the International Criminal Court and Africa’s role therein, I scantly defended America’s un-signing of the Rome Statue.

Background: the Rome Statue was the treaty-based document that founded the ICC after being ratified by 120 countries. On December 31^st, 2000, the Clinton administration actually signed the Statue, effectively submitting the US to ICC jurisdiction, but in 2002, the Bush administration “unsigned,” the Statue under Article 124 (right before the invasion of Iraq which was illegal under international law, mind you).

Anyway, a main critique by African nations of the ICC is that Bush should be indicted for Iraq. Buuuuut I defended my country, citing the legal (though still questionable) nullification of the Statue. This isn’t the only instance in which I’ve defended the US recently, but it is the most recent and freshest in my mind. Therefore you got to read about it. It just gets somewhat tiring hearing about how evil we are all the time. I may not agree with all of our foreign policies (this is an understatement), but sometimes they actually can be legally or strategically justified (though almost never morally). Don’t worry, though. No Huckabee or Bush-like jingoism will ever come from this American (see Huckabee’s statement defending American exceptionalism and tell me he’s not a jingoist). Because I am not my country. I am merely one of its citizens.

In addition to these learning experiences, I have had experiences with learning. We started tutoring kids at the school in Mamelodi this month, and we all love it thus far. We each have a handful of kids that we were assigned the first week and are responsible for helping with reading every Wednesday afternoon. I received four girls, each in fifth grade. The first week we made rainmakers. Cute, but the kids weren’t really learning anything from it. The second week, we arrived to a locked library (where all them learnin’s be occurin’). We sat outside for a while, playing hand games like “Down by the banks,” (and other African hand games I had never heard of but loved anyway) till we received some books. Problem? They were in Afrikaans. Which is basically useless if you’re not Afrikaner. These children could read, write, and speak in Zulu perfectly fine, but needed to work on English, which is the language of choice at high school (school is optional after grade nine in this country) and university. One of my girls pulled out a workbook they had been using, and we began reading that. Or so I thought. I soon realized that the girls had actually just memorized parts of the book, as when I asked them to read sentences one at a time from a page of my choosing, one of the girls was completely clueless. When I asked her to sound out ‘house,’ asking what sound ‘h’ made, she had no idea. Another got it after some time, and the two others are at their level. These are fifth graders, mind you. Brooke, Madison, Carmen, and Clauida (the other exchange students volunteering at the school) all had similar problems. All of these kids are at completely different levels, yet all are in the same grade. And when I say different levels, I mean some are at a fifth grade level and some don’t know what vowels and consonants are or what sounds they make. Maybe South Africa just isn’t Hooked on Phonics? To me, learning to read and write phonetically and assessing and separating kids based on achievement level just makes more sense. But maybe that’s because it’s just what I grew up with.

Anyway, after talking to the other volunteers/students my age, I don’t think this kids have learning disabilities or anything. What I do think is that the South African education system needs some serious reform. This assessment is not based on two one day weeks of tutoring. It is based on collective discussion of experiences at the school in Mamelodi and at the University of Pretoria.

Well, that was a lot longer than I intended it to be. Sorry if it’s too boring. I’ve become quite the talker/typer when blogging. For my next entry? Spring Break: long car rides through the beautiful South African countryside, bungee jumping, ostrich riding, shark watching, Table Mountain, Cape of Good Hope, and close encounters with wild baboons and penguins. Now to leave you with that cliffhanger for a few days while I type up a scholarship application and rest my brain.